Against Conservative Myths of Motherhood
Conservatives say birth rates are falling because of a lack of old-fashioned respect for motherhood. Rather than enshrining women’s supposedly natural and essential role as mothers, we should place children at the heart of a politics that cares for everyone.

Helen Charman’s Mother State is about the shifting political construction of motherhood, from the sainted mothers of the postwar East End to the “scrounger” mums of the 2010s. (Justin Paget / Getty Images)
Mothers, apparently, dream of hospitals. The “hospital fantasy” is one where an exhausted, overburdened carer becomes the cared-for. It is hard to imagine anyone in Britain at the tail of fourteen years of Tory austerity fantasizing about hospitals. Here our statist dreams are in sepia and made up of nuns at bedsides.
Helen Charman’s Mother State — an epic exploration of motherhood and popular politics in contemporary British history — opens with our collective nun fantasy: Call the Midwife. Set in the 1950s and ’60s, this Sunday-night prime-time BBC drama offers a nostalgic portrait of the early years of the National Health Service. In each episode, a pregnant working-class East Londoner is relieved of her duties and ministered to by nuns in a maternity unit replete with fresh flowers and primrose-colored walls. Lay down your mop pail and forget your unstarched whites and your five elder children: everything is being taken care of.
Charman ends her story just up the road, but with a quite different story about motherhood. In 2013, a group of twenty-nine single mothers were served an eviction notice from their hostel in Newham, an area of East London where £11 billion had just been spent on the Olympic Games. The mothers were told that they would be resettled in Birmingham or Manchester, hundreds of miles from their children’s schools and their families. So they broke into empty flats on the condemned Carpenter Estate and hung banners from the window. “These HOMES Need People: THESE PEOPLE NEED HOMES.” Inside the “E15 Mums” (as they became known, in reference to the local postcode) created a communal playroom and ran workshops including parent-toddler cooking and basic plumbing.