An AEI-Sculpted World That Must Never Be Changed

On its face, Build the Life You Want offers a mix of reasonable — if banal — life advice, parables, reasonably clear distillations of complex philosophical and linguistic concepts, and synthesized academic research. The book engages in pop metaphysics that limits its ambition for the more science- and liberal-minded from the get-go, letting us know that achieving “happiness” — as some final stage of contentment — is impossible. But, Brooks insists, “we can be happier” in relative terms.

“Unlike other books you may have read,” he tells us, “this one is not going to exhort you to pull yourself up by your bootstraps. This isn’t a book about willpower ​​— it’s about knowledge, and how to use it.”

Which is all to say, this book is absolutely about how to pull yourself up by your bootstraps and follow concrete steps to self-contentment, but doing so with some reputable sociology and psychology studies as your guide rather than quasi-fascist bromides about being an alpha dog one typically hears from the likes of Jordan Peterson. But the general motivational tone and reactionary political premises are the same.

The book kicks off in earnest with a scrappy, can-do story of self-determination on the part of Brooks’s Spanish mother-in-law, “Albina,” who is used as a template for self-fulfillment.

In the introduction, titled “Albina’s Secret,” we are told that, after years of living with an abusive husband and a fraught domestic life,

One day, when Albina was forty-five, something changed for her. For reasons that were not clear to her friends and family, her outlook on life seemed to shift. It’s not that she was suddenly less lonely, or that she mysteriously came into money, but for some reason, she stopped waiting for the world to change and took control of her life. The most obvious change she made was to enroll in college to become a teacher.

Brooks asserts that the primary change that propelled Albina toward midlife happiness was her shift from worrying about “the outside world” to looking inward.

“She switched,” Brooks tells us, “wishing others were different, to working on the one person she could control: herself.”

Personal responsibility is a hallmark of the self-help genre, and Brooks’s breezy title has this convention in spades.

In Brooks’s telling, changing “the outside world” as a pathway to peace and happiness is a fool’s errand. Like virtually all self-help books, we are told the road to self-satisfaction is found within, not with our circumstances, but how we respond to our circumstances.

This is a convention of the capitalist self-help genre for one obvious reason: it requires nothing in the “outside world” to change. And once one gets into the messiness of “changing the outside world,” one ventures into political theory. This is uncomfortable and can’t be put into an earth-toned seven-hundred-page book that rich Atlantic subscribers will want to buy.

Albina’s solution, Brooks tells us, wasn’t to find her local underground socialist party or union headquarters and join a political movement to combat the Franco government or to try and materially improve the lot of other women sharing her gender-based suffering — it was to ignore “the outside world” and instead focus on a career shift and a switch in attitude.

Like a lot of self-help advice, this works on a micro scale. Surely, it’s too great an ask to demand a middle-aged mother in an economically precarious situation join the fight against the Franco government. But Brooks is constitutionally uninterested in the forces of patriarchy and capitalism that coauthored the misery — not because they’re irrelevant to his self-help brand of anti-politics, but because of it.

Self-help makes grand claims about human progress, it offers advice to the masses on how they can improve their lot — it is inherently political by its nature. But Brooks does not tell us we can be empowered by making demands of the powerful or joining a union or a political movement, but — how else — by buying his book.

This is Brooks’s big trick: his happiness recommendations presume a society that can and will never change from the one he helped craft in Washington.

In today’s AEI-sculpted America, millions are deprived of the building blocks of happiness such as guaranteed health care, free higher education, paid family leave, workplace empowerment, retirement security, and a host of other social democratic pillars that sustain the world’s happiest societies. Unwilling to allow for the possibility that such conditions can or should change in the United States, Brooks nonetheless presents happiness as an achievable self-centric project inside the dystopia he helped create.

When Everyone Has a Career But No One Has a Job

Build the Life You Want follows Brooks’s first foray into the happiness industry — a book called From Strength to Strength that is about “finding success, happiness, and deep purpose in the second half of life.”

That monograph argues that because of the way humans’ brains change, one’s professional decline begins much earlier than we expect. The book suggests that workers in midlife should therefore move into work roles that require less cognitive innovation (fluid intelligence) and more teaching of acquired wisdom (crystallized intelligence).

It is an important finding that might prompt a broader discussion of policies that could account for this inevitability — retraining programs, funding for midlife career education, universal portable benefits that allow for job switches, and earlier retirement ages. But ever the conservative ideologue, Brooks eschews all that, instead channeling the old conservative trope that failing to change professional trajectory — or being demoralized by the work treadmill — is just a mental flaw in one’s personal outlook.

“Satisfaction comes not from chasing bigger and bigger things, but paying attention to smaller and smaller things,” he writes, in a call for a mass change of attitude.

What prevents necessary career shifts that might lead to happiness, Brooks asserts, is “self-objectification, workaholism, and most of all success addiction that chain us to our declining fluid intelligence curve.”

“What do I want to do with my time this week to cultivate the relationships that will result in that end scenario?” Brooks says he asks himself in order to imagine an existence of stronger personal bonds. “I might make the decision to leave work on time, leave my work at the office, get home for dinner, and watch a movie after dinner with my family.”

In this dreamscape, most Americans get to choose when they work and under what conditions. Nowhere in Brooks’s world of lanyards does he consider that Americans working ever-longer hours and ever-more jobs may have less to do with career ambition than with simply trying to earn enough to pay the ever-increasing bills — bills that fund the ballooning profits of the kind of donors who can pay Brooks’s upward of $125,000 speaking fee or write six-figure checks to outfits like AEI.

This same ideology carries into Build the Life You Want, where Brooks repeatedly hints at a deeper theme of overwork and soul-sucking labor, but avoids the obvious indicators and instead moves on to sell his brand of self-analysis — with little consideration of systemic problems.

Recapping researchers documenting how humans are usually good at categorizing their own positive associations, Brooks notes that “activities that were most negative and least positive were commuting and spending time with one’s boss.”

He caps this off with a joke: “Obviously, then, it’s definitely best not to commute with your boss.” It’s clear that people’s least favorite activities are related to working dreary, miserable jobs.

A Political Project Shrouded in Empiricism

In its characteristically fawning profile of Brooks as “part social scientist, part self-help coach, part motivational speaker, and part spiritual guru,” Politico recently cast his journey as a departure from politics and ideology.

“Brooks has undergone one of the more unusual professional transformations that Washington has witnessed in recent decades,” the Beltway news outlet wrote. “His most recent transformation also represents a type of retreat — away from a conservative movement that once held him up as a model of its future.”

Brooks himself leans into this assertion, arguing that “I’m not a player in the conservative movement” and adding that his career in the conservative movement “is just not relevant — this stuff isn’t relevant anymore.”

But Brooks’s professional trek is less a “transformation” — and less shocking — if one considers that his happiness books are ideological manifestos shrouded in the veil of social science. His new literature is the kind of academia-flavored politics that has long been the central product — and sleight of hand — of the almost seventy-million-dollar think tank that Brooks ran for a decade. (AEI still lists Brooks as one of its scholars.)

From its origin, AEI has depicted itself as a staid, nonpartisan, quasi-academic institution, even though it has always been a lobbying front for right-wing forces — a one-stop shop where corporate America can advance its ideological and political interests under the auspices of academic research and policy shaping.

Though not mentioned in AEI’s official history, President Harry Truman shut down the organization in 1949 because it was illegally operating as a lobbying front for the railroad industry. It falsely called itself an “educational association” while sharing a physical address with a rail lobby. Though AEI’s donors remain anonymous to this day (a practice frowned upon in the nonprofit world for obvious reasons), the donors that have been revealed through reporting include fossil fuel extractors, labor abusers, opioid pushers, dictators, weapons makers, and Big Tech giants — all of which have an interest in shaping America’s political discourse, under the guise of seemingly nonpartisan empiricism.

The bulk of Build the Life You Want is harmless enough, synthesizing sociological and psychological theories and studies from the past fifty years or so, from personality sorting questionnaires to scientifically suspect, but persistently popular, reliance on brain activity research. But he then weaponizes that research and scholarship to create ideological storylines.

The book stresses the importance of “earned success,” which is Brooks’s personal conservative spin on “learned helplessness” — a concept popularized in the 1970s by Martin Seligman, the so-called “father of positive psychology.”

“Earned success instead gives you a sense of accomplishment and professional efficacy,” Brooks writes. “The best way to enjoy earned success is to find ways to get better at your job, whether that leads to promotions and higher pay or not.”

Hard work for its own sake will make us happier is a storyline that couldn’t have been better articulated by AEI scholars, who insinuate that Americans’ big problem is their alleged lack of work ethic, not the rapaciousness of the think tank’s donors.

Paraphrasing — or rather, misreading — Viktor Frankl, author of the 1946 Holocaust memoir and social psychology text Man’s Search for Meaning, Brooks writes that “the common strategy of trying to eliminate suffering from life to get happier is futile and mistaken; we must instead look for the why of life to make pain an opportunity for growth.”

“The Benefits of Weakness, Pain, and Loss”

This “tough it out” ethos is consistent with Brooks’s decades of advocating the evisceration of programs designed to help the poor survive — all to extend “happiness” and prosperity to the masses.

“It is a simple fact that the United States is becoming an entitlement state,” he wrote in a 2012 Wall Street Journal op-ed that depicted Social Security, welfare programs, and disability benefits as “impoverishing the lives of the growing millions dependent on unearned resources.”

“The good news is that we have a golden opportunity to rein in entitlements,” he said, invoking Washington-speak for reducing Social Security benefits, which AEI has proposed. “By reforming entitlements and the tax system instead of extracting more money with higher tax rates, the economy could be reoriented away from unearned transfers to earned wages. This would make the economy fairer and sounder. And in the process it could build a happier country for ourselves and our children.”

If it seems deeply cynical to use pop psychology and pop morality of “earning” money and creating “happiness” to argue for lowering taxes for the rich and cutting social programs for the poor, that’s because it is.

Brooks now insists he is no longer manufacturing such political opinion, but his old austerity activism shines through in his happiness literature.

The most explicit example is in his book From Strength to Strength. As part of a passage headlined, “The benefits of weakness, pain, and loss,” Brooks cites Frankl to suggest that a world of hardship may actually be desirable, because people “could find the meaning of their lives, and personal growth, in all kinds of suffering.”

Perhaps this explains why Brooks’s new iteration as a happiness guru includes no mea culpa for his past career explicitly advocating for the austerity that sows so much desperation. If suffering is a catalyst for personal growth, then why should he offer contrition?

The mystery, then, isn’t why he is so unapologetic and still on this trajectory (answer: it is lucrative). The most vexing question is: Why are so many liberals falling for this act?

This is a man who is deeply uninterested — and, indeed, actively hostile to — creating the conditions that allow anyone who isn’t in his class status the capacity to be safe and secure, much less happy, and he is now one of the country’s most prominent gurus for finding “happiness.”

For the better part of a decade, Brooks hired and curated the careers of documented racists like Charles Murray, climate denialists like Mark Perry, and ”replacement theory” advocates like J. D. Vance. Now he’s doing a calm, professorial routine about how we all need to take a practical, science-driven path to being happier?

This should be a scandal, but Brooks frames it in the right Atlantic-ese, so most just nod along.

For a book about a life well lived, Build the Life You Want is remarkably short on objective discussions of ethics or virtue. All moral content exists entirely inside the head of the reader or the authors’ examples of happy people (what makes you feel inspired, what our subject found fulfilling), with zero discussion about what is objectively virtuous or what can be done as a community rather than as an individual — fitting for a career funded by ExxonMobil, the Koch brothers, and heirs to the Walmart fortune.

Ultimately, this is where all of these class-flattening, middlebrow self-help discussions of happiness fall apart: they treat “happiness” as the center of the moral universe rather than virtue, which is to say, the politics of maximizing others’ happiness over one’s own in a systematic way, rather than as one-off instances of bourgeois charity.

But, of course, serial killers are “happy” murdering, Charles Koch is “happy” extracting profit from low-wage workers, and Saudi dictators are “happy” hosting cocaine-fueled yacht parties and buying soccer teams. So what? Being happy is not inherently good or bad. What matters is building systems of justice, welfare, and safety that allow the maximum number of people to be secure and healthy.

If granting the average working person rights to a universal basic standard of living ends up creating more happiness, then all the better.

But without such foundational rights — rights Brooks has spent his career opposing — what is “happiness” if not an abstract privilege of those who can afford it?